Dear Nurse Ansalong:
I am in love with a very gay transvestite. I am a 14 year old girl and I think about him day and night. Well, mostly night. How can I become friends with him if I'm so infatuated I want to rip his clothes off and take him to heaven? -Zoe S

Zoe, all you really have to do is be yourself. You're at the age where your body is "waking up" and you'll get urges and feelings that you've never thought of before. What you need to do is, when you talk to him, just do it as yourself. If you need to, take someone with you and have them watch you. When you look like you're going to jump him, the person will be there to stop you. Also, try and find out what he's interested in, like music, films, or whatever, and talk to him about that. Once you've found a common interest, it should be easier to talk to him. One last thing, be careful that you don't get your heart broken. He might just want to be your friend, so be prepared if something like that happens. You're only 14, and there'll be more chances for you in the future to meet your dream guy.

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