Satana, until he gets a divorce, I would definately tell you to stay as far romantically away from him as you can. He made a vow to his wife to stay by her side while they're married. If he's not willing to honour that vow, then where will that leave you if he stops being interested in you? Also, think how his wife would feel to find out that he was cheating on her. A couple years ago, almost the same thing happened to me. I was 21 and dating the man of my dreams. Then, I started to notice strange behavior and, after I caught him talking on the phone with the "other woman", he told me everything. I was crushed and had trouble trusting men for a long time after. My friends helped me through and now I'm back to my old self. I don't have a boyfriend, but I know that all men aren't like my ex. Please think this through before you start anything with him. For some men, they seem to think that they can do anything with anyone and not get into trouble for it. Save your love for someone who is interested in only you and wants to be with just you.

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