Dear Nurse Ansalong:
There is this guy that I have known for a long time. I've never thought he was cute until now. He is my brother's best friend's little brother. I went to a bar the other night to see my brothers band. The cute guy is his drummer. Although my brother is in his twenties, the guy I think is hot is only 17 or 18. The only problem is that my sister told me she has a minor crush on him. She is 19 and i am 17. So should I tell my sister what I feel about this guy or should I just ask this guy out????
-Lusa
Lusa, I'd say go right ahead and ask him out. If he's still unattached, then there shouldn't be any problems. Your sister might have a crush on him like you, but if neither of you ask him out, then it will always be nothing more than just a crush. If your sister decides to do the same thing and ask him out, then there could be a problem. But, if it's all just still at the crush stage, I would tell you to go for it.
