Dear Nurse Ansalong:
I get so jealous of my best friend sometimes. I know that it has nothing to do with her and is completely based on my own insecurities, but it really bothers me and I'm afraid it may damage our friendship someday. Do you have any advice on I how I can overcome these feelings?
-Miss Vice

Miss Vice, you've actually just taken the first step to overcoming these feelings - you can admit to yourself that you have them. The next step is to try to think of what could be causing these feelings. You said that they are completely based on your own insecurities, but you'll need to figure out what is causing the insecure feelings in yourself in the first place. Once you've figured that out, then you'll need to come up with ways to fight against the insecure feelings. It may seem like something that will take you forever to get through, but, since you've already taken the first step, you're already on your way to ridding yourself of all of these insecurities that you're having.

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