Dear Nurse Ansalong:
So I am 15 and I totally like this guy that is on my local ROCKY cast. The trouble is, he's 18 and basically a whore. I can only go to ROCKY once a month and that is the only contact I have with him. The last show i was at, we were kissing and had our arms around each other, and it's all so confusing. I really like him a lot, but what should I do?
-Killer Cookie

Killer Cookie, it sounds like you are in a very conflicting situation. On one hand, you have the attraction to this guy pulling yourself one way while what he could be actually up to when you aren't around is pulling you in the other. If you have friends that are at the show more often than you, you could always talk to them about what they see him doing. They might know a side of him that he's kept hidden when he spends time with you.

Another thing to remember is that, at the age that you're at, there's going to be a lot more guys that will come along that will treat you better than him if he is the "whore" that you say. Don't put all your hopes and dreams into any guy until he's shown that you have any reason to believe him in the first place.

If the two of you are still attracted to each other, than maybe you should try to take this possible relationship out of the dark theatre and into the daylight and the real world. That way, you might find out the total proof to your question.

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