Dear Nurse Ansalong:
I am a shy person and I have a hard time talking to people I know. There is this guy I like, and I want to talk to him. Do you have any idea of what I should say?
-Frannie
Frannie, I would first tell you to try and be yourself. There's no point in you making yourself out to be something that you're not and, if he falls for the 'new you', you could wind up getting hurt in the end. If you're unsure of what he definately likes and dislikes, try to see if the two of you have a mutual friend that can give you some information before you try to talk to him. One last thing that I would tell you to do is to try and remain calm. Try to breathe normally and don't let your emotions get too overly stimulated. Whatever happens, I hope that it all works out in the end for you.
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