Dear Nurse Ansalong:
I have been seeing a women for over a year now. Recently, I started getting with someone else though. The sex with other person is so amazing, but I'm still emotionall attached to my girlfriend. How do I handle this?
-Too Much Action
Action, there's a right way and a wrong way to handle your problem. For myself and, I believe a large portion of the people in the world, the wrong way would be to continue everything the way that it's going now. The right thing to do would be to decide which person you care about more and to stop seeing the other. And to care for someone is not the same as how good the sex feels. You could be having the best sex imaginable, but if there's no love and affection to back it up, it's not going to get you anywhere. Also, if you still care for your girlfriend like you say that you do, you owe it to her to tell her the truth. It could cause pain and hardships in your immediate future, but to continue along the way that you are would be to set yourself up for an even bigger fall later on.
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