Dear Nurse Ansalong:
My friend Jenny was married to my room mate and, the whole time she was living there, I heard them fight. Now, she has moved out and he still talks bad about her. What should I do?
-Magenta McClain

Magenta, from the information that you've given me, I don't know why they actually broke up, but it sounds like your room mate is still hurting from whatever happened. If what he's saying about your friend is not true, then you should definately hold him to whatever half-truths and lies he's trying to spread about her. Personally, I've always been someone who will defend my friends against whatever lies other people try to spread. It's not fair to talk about someone behind their backs and, if he's in the wrong, then you should try to get him to stop. Also, you might might want to try to talk with him about what happened between them. It's probably a long shot, but he might tone down his arguements if he could get out whatever feelings he has inside. Hopefully I've been able to help you with your problem and I hope that he'll stop soon.


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