Dear Nurse Ansalong:
I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 2 months. I'm bisexual and he knows that, but will not let me do anything with a female. I have recently been developing feelings for my ex-girlfriend and I just don't know what to do. She totally broke my heart about 2 years ago and know I can't stop thinking about her. I know she's hurt others (male and female alike) but I have a feeling she recently broke off her long-time relationship with a male to persue a relationship with me. I love my boyfriend more than anything, but I can't help the feelings I have towards her and other females. What the hell do I do?!?!
-Ariel
Ariel, you should probably sit down and give this question a lot of thought. If your ex-girlfriend is known for hurting the people that she goes out with (including yourself), then she might be someone that you shouldn't go out with. It doesn't sound like you know definately if she broke up her other relationship for a new one with you. You could start going out with her and have her do the exact same thing that she did in the past. If you and your boyfriend's relationship is stable and you both love each other, then you'd be throwing that away on the chance that she is serious about you now. If you want to find out about why your ex-girlfriend is single again, you could call her or one of her friends to get the information. It is sometimes hard when you break up with someone to let them out of your heart. The feelings that you had sit and wait for something to trigger them, and then they all come flooding back. These old feelings might be strong, but there could be nothing left to back them up with the other person. Whatever you decide, I would definately advise you to think about this before you act. You could be risking everything on only a chance of something different...
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