Dear Nurse Ansalong:
My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 8 months now. For the first few months, she called me every day she wrote me every day at school. She stopped that a month or two ago. I also have a twin brother that she had (and might sill have) a huge crush on him. She talks (flirts) with him every day behind my back. I don't think she loves me anymore. Please tell me what to do!!!
-Tromeo

Tromeo, without knowing our girlfriend, it sounds like she might feel the same way about you as she did when the relationship started. If you want to get an answer quickly, then you should try and talk with her to see what is happening. You could bring up the topic of your twin brother, but, unless you have proof that she has flirted with him, you might want to leave it out. Talk with her about her feelings and see what she has to say. Be sure to tell her that you still care about her and you don't want the relationship to end. While she might not be showing interest right now, the fact that you still care about her could bring her back to you. But, be prepared if she tells you something that you don't want to hear. A relationship is something that you have to work at and both members have to do it together or everything wil fall apart.

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