Dear Nurse Ansalong:
When my boyfriend (of 2 months in Nov.) "Fireclaw" was kissing me today, I felt aroused. I need to know if this is normal or not? I love him a lot and I don't want to lose him! My ex-boyfriend "Damien" in high school kissed me the same way and 6 months later I dumped him. ("Damien" not "Fireclaw") I have never felt this way about being kissed and am very confused.
-Utopia

Utopia, there's not really anything to be confused about. If you care for "Fireclaw" as much as you say, then a kiss from him would definately cause you to get aroused. And don't think that, just because the two kissing events are similar, that you are destined to dump your new boyfriend. While "Damien" might not have been the right person for you, "Fireclaw" could be perfect for you. Give your mind and emotions some time to function correctly again and I think that you'll be okay.

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