Dear Nurse Ansalong:
My problem is you see... I was with this beautiful girl, but I didn't realise how crazy I was for her. Then, one morning, we had an argument and I said and did some stupid things and we broke up. Now, she has realized that I'm too immature for her (I'm 18 and she's 21). I can't stop thinking about her and I think she likes me too, but she doesn't want to change me. She won't give it another chance, but she wants to continue to be friends with me. And now, there is another girl whom I think I like (although I could just be using her to forget K) but, while K (the girl I'm crazy for) gets touchy and jealous when I mention her, she won't be mine. I don't know what to do. Should I wait and see if things with K get better or move on???
-Grrrlfriend

Grrrlfriend, while it does sound like there could still be some feelings between you and K, I'm not sure if it's something that can have a relationship built on it. If she's just jealous that you've found someone to take her place before she's done the same, then I wouldn't place any long term plans on those emotions. If you're truthfully feeling attracted to this "new girl", then see what happens. You could wind up spending a lot of time and losing a chance with someone because you're still trying to get back with an old girlfriend. The more interest that you show in the "new girl" could also help to show just what K's true feelings are for you right now. I'd tell you to follow your heart and see where it leads you...

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