Dear Nurse Ansalong:
I still like a boy and he acted nice to me when he came over the other day. But, I am just thinking to myself that he could have any other girl, basically, so why would he pick me? I try to be desirable and stuff, but I just don't know how to act around him so that he will like me. I just want him soo bad. Please help!
-Glor

Glor, there isn't just one thing that all men will find desirable. Some men go for blondes, some like brunettes. There are men that like a woman with a forceful personality and the same amount that like a more quiet woman. To find out what your guy is interested in, think about the women that he has talked with you about. He might talk about them as friends, but there could be an underlying attraction there. Also, talk to one of his friends about what kind of dating history he has. There could be a clue in who he's gone out with that could show you what he likes and doesn't like. One thing that I would advice against is changing yourself just to attract him. When you do this, you're lying to both him and yourself. Once you've won him over, there's the real chance that he could see "the real you" and realize that you aren't the women that he thought you were, no matter how much you care about him. You could lose a friend as well as a boyfriend if you follow this route.

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