Dear Nurse Ansalong:
I really like this boy "Aaron" and he is coming over Thursday. And sleeping over, cause his Mom is friends with mine-just don't even ask. Anyway, I was thinking about having sex with him and I really want to, but I am really young and my Dad just told me the other day that I should wait til I am married. I just don't know. I don't want to feel guilty if I do, but I don't want to rush things.
-Glor

Glor, if I read your question right, it sounds like you're a virgin. One thing about having sex that I've learned in my life is that just having sex to have done it is not a very good idea. It might feel good as you have it, but, once it's over, your life goes back to the way it was before. If you and "Aaron" had been dating for awhile, then it might be a little better. I know I'll probably get messages back about this, but I would personally advice against it. You are still young and you have a lot of life ahead of you to experience everything. Having sex with someone that you love adds so much more to the experience. If you find this guy attractive, try and be romantic with him and see what happens. Maybe he's intersted in you in more than a physical sense. If you do decide to do it with him, please promise me that you'll use whatever forms of protection that you can. Another side effect of having sex is the posibility of contracting a disease or getting pregnant. If you really like "Aaron", then tell him you feel and it could be the start of a beautiful relationship.

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