Dear Nurse Ansalong:
I am in a relationship with a guy. I met another man over the internet and we have long phone conversations all the time, and I think I'm in love with him. However, I also love my boyfriend and don't want to hurt him, but I just don't have the same feelings for him anymore. What do I do?
-Frustrated as all Hell

Frustrated, if your feelings for your boyfriend have changed, then it might be a sign that the relationship is ending. If it is at an end, then I think you should tell your boyfriend how you feel. To keep the relationship going when you don't feel the same kind of love for him would probably cause him just as much pain in the end. If your feelings are stronger for the internet person, then you might want to see what happens. Be careful if you do start a relationship with a person over the internet. While you might have talked with him for a long time on the computer or telephone, you sometimes can't be totally sure about a person until you spend some time with them in the same room. Before you do anything, I would tell you to do some serious thinking about how you feel. Once you make your decision, you're going to have to live with it for the rest of your life.

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