Dear Nurse Ansalong:
About two years ago I met this woman at ROCKY. It got to the point that I was going to see her instead of the show. After a while, I fell in love with her. Then, I found out that she's gay. We are good friends, but she doesn't know how I feel, and I fear that she'll hate me or not want to be friends anymore if she finds out.
-Dr Scott

Dr Scott, if the two of you are good friends, then I don't think she'd hate you if she found out that you love her. Even if she doesn't feel exactly the same way as you do, she probably does have strong feelings of friendship for you. While it seems like it's very easy to break up a dating relationship, there are many friendships that have survived for years through many different circumstances. If she finds out about your feelings, then make sure that she knows how you feel and that you still want to be her friend. Other than that, I'd say just relax, let your friendship go on as it has, and always be there for her when she needs someone. She might be needing a good friend by her side in the future.

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