Dear Nurse Ansalong:
I was engaged. He accused me of cheating, and now we are "friends." Sometimes we cuddle, sometimes we fight, then we have sex, then he doesn't talk to me, then he tells me there is no chance of working things out, then he wants to work things out, etc. I am tired of it, but I love him very much and want to know what to do.
-Blue
Blue, if I were you, I'd give him an ultamatum. From the way you've described it, he seems to want to still get enjoyment without any commitment. This defiantely doesn't sound like a healthy relationship, at least at the present time. It might be painful for you, but you don't sound like you want the situation to go on the way that it is. Tell him how you feel and see what he does. If he actually changes his ways, then it will be good for you to have him in your life. If he doesn't react or does so in a bad way, then at least you'll know that it's good that you aren't with him anymore. There are so many men out there. You shouldn't have to waste your time with the one that you have. If he doesn't feel the same way for you as you do for him, then get out there and find someone who will. Then, at least one of us will have a date...
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