Dear Nurse Ansalong:
I'm dating this guy... We'll call him "George". He just happens to be married. He wants to leave his wife for me. He's already told me that he loves me, but I have yet to feel the exact same way for him. It's like we've only known each other for 2 months, but, like he said, it seems like fate between us only because we both agree that we feel like we've loved each other in another life. Everything we do together is perfect! But how do I know if he's playing head games with me or not? Please help! I really care about this man!!!
-Kid

Kid, feelings can be very strange. They can make you hear and believe things that aren't what you think they are. He might think that he really cares for you, but the fact that he's only known you for about 2 months bothers me. Even though you said that you really care about him, I'd advice you to keep out of any relationships with him until he leaves his wife. There are just to many chances for problems if you tried to get involved with him while he was still married. He might say that he's leaving her, but, until he does, all he's giving you is empty promises. Once he is single again, then go after him.

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