Dear Nurse Ansalong:
I want to tell you that we are, in fact, back together (if that's what you want to call it). I realize that he's still with his wife, but things are tough right now for both of us, so it's kind of understandable. I love him and I'm greedy. I WANT HIM TO MYSELF!! How should I go about explaining this to him without making him feel pressured?
-Meg (Yes,the one who had the affair)

Meg, at this point, I would advice you to talk to him about his feelings. If he can't decide between you or his wife, what's to stop him, if he does get the divorce and you two are together, from doing the exact same thing to you? I know that you said that he's having a tough time, but he should make a decision on who he wants to be with. It's not fair to you or his wife that he's going out with both of you. You might be worried that you're pressuring him, but if you don't, he might never make the decision and you'll be stuck in the same position that you're in now.

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