Dear Nurse Ansalong:
My best friend dumped me over reasons, she says, I wouldn't understand. I'm 15 and she's 18. I've never met anyone as nice as her and I love her deeply, but she just wants me out of her life. Should I keep trying to befriend her again? Or should I just leave this whole dispute in the past?
-J

J, people can act in strange ways. When I graduated from high school, my best friend went off to college and I never heard from her again. For whatever reason, your best friend is forcing you out of her life. If you've tried every way to talk to her and she acts the same, then it might be time for the two of you to seperate. Before you make that final decision, make sure that you've tried every way possible to talk to her. If she won't talk to you in person, then call her. You could also write her a letter or, if she's on the internet, send her an email. I'd advice you to be prepared if she still doesn't want to talk to you. She might be at a point in her life where she's moving on to her "adult life". This change might also include leaving parts of her past behind. We all do this in our lives and, while sometimes painful, it's an event that needs to happen. It might be your friend's time now.


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